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Book Club: Shanda: A Memoir of Shame and Secrecy

Monday, January 9, 2023 16 Tevet 5783

10:30 AM - 11:30 AM

Book Club meetings have resumed at the Temple instead of via Zoom and we will continue to meet in person at 10:30am on the second Monday of each month.

On January 9 we will discuss SHANDA : A MEMOIR OF SHAME AND SECRECY by Letty Cottin Pogrebin

The word “shanda” is defined as shame or disgrace in Yiddish. This book, Shanda, tells the story of three generations of complicated, intense 20th-century Jews for whom the desire to fit in and the fear of public humiliation either drove their aspirations or crushed their spirit.

In her deeply engaging, astonishingly candid memoir, author and activist Letty Cottin Pogrebin exposes the fiercely-guarded lies and intricate cover-ups woven by dozens of members of her extended family. Beginning with her own long-suppressed secret, the story spirals through the hidden lives of her parents and relatives—revealing the truth about their origins, personal traumas, marital misery, abandoned children, religious transgressions, sexual identity, radical politics, and supposedly embarrassing illnesses. While unmasking their charades and disguises, Pogrebin also showcases her family’s remarkable talent for reinvention in a narrative that is, by turns, touching, searing, and surprisingly universal.

For questions or concerns, please feel free to contact Edie at 443-223-9729 or ediewolf@gmail.com

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